Turbo-charged attack

Charlotte is preparing for her second round of this second chemo series. The nausea came, and was contained with super strength antiemetics. Whilst energy levels and breathlessness serve to remind us of the alien's antics, the schedule permits some important reprieve and I have been delighted to spend some very chilled out time with someone who truly understands the meaning and value of 'rest'.

She remains one of the greatest teachers I've ever had. And I've had some goodens. Her humble acceptance of life on life's terms continues to inspire me. Her humour through it all never ceases to amaze me. It's contagious and my own life is injected with meaning by her exceptional wisdom, strength and hope.

And then there's her fortitude. This week's activity schedule included a breathlessness workshop and a session on the turbo trainer... Charlotte remains an athlete. She knows her body and she respects her dynamic limitations. Within them, however, anything's possible. Including turbos. Alien beware.

Fortitude... It means fixity of purpose. It means endurance.

It means having the strength to live with what constrains you.

Hilary Mantel

Fortitude is the marshal of thought, the armour of the will and the fort of reason.

Francis Bacon

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Table. Apple. Penny.

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Glass half full? Glass half empty? Or perhaps the glass is broken

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Pausing in the sunshine

And so, chemo is over. My best friend's diary has been chocker... Line cleans, blood tests, scans and 18 weekly doses of the gruelling treatment itself. Summer seems at last to have arrived and with it, we hope, some time, peace and space. She is, we acknowledged over a rather yummy luncheon served to us beneath the beautiful canopy of creepers and climbers at Petersham Nurseries, an inspiration. A small group of us gathered to celebrate her forthcoming marriage. The sun's rays joined the warmth we all have for this very special woman. Warmth and, in my case at least, pride. It is the greatest privilege to call this woman my best friend. She continues to epitomise my understanding of grace. Our bodies are fragile things. Our minds are frailer still. In her composure and wisdom, she possesses an outlook I can only aspire to adopt. From you, dear Charlotte, I learn and I learn and I learn. The ...

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